Apr 21, 2013

please i really need you help am a lesbian and am kind of lonely i cant get myself a partner since in my country its kind of illegal so no one can come up an declare the status due to fear what do i do? First and foremost, I feel for your situation. I can’t imagine how difficult it must be to not be able to be who you are for fear of persecution.  I wish...

Apr 15, 2012

Alone, scared and confused.  These words could be used to describe a lost child, but in this case, they’re not.  They are the very real and daily feelings of a person who is questioning their sexuality.  For those of you who’ve been there, this may take you back to a place you’d rather not visit.  For many others, it represents the beginning of a...

Mar 5, 2012

My partner cheated; can I ever trust him or her again? The answer is yes, you can trust again.  Can you trust the person who cheated on you ever again?  That depends on many factors. Need some advice?  Write to Dear Janeen First of all, when someone cheats in a relationship, it is of utmost importance for the person who cheats to take responsibility for the...

Jan 4, 2012

I’m here, I’m queer, and I’m lonely Did you just arrive in San Francisco?  Are you having trouble connecting with the queer community?  Is it hard to meet people, make friends and get to know potential partners?  Is it hard to tell who is queer, who is queer friendly and who is not? Need some advice?  Write to Dear Janeen You are not alone!  Many...

Jan 2, 2012

My name is Angie Weber and I’m on a bit of a personal crusade here… So I’m a recovering meth addict, and a member of the LGBT community. I feel this substance abuse “shadow” within the LGBT lifestyle needs FAR more attention than it gets. Would you be willing to share this guide I helped write: “What to Look For When Seeking...

Dec 15, 2011

December and the holidays often bring a combination of great joy for some and sadness for others.  Friends, colleagues and clients alike may be feeling anxiety or stress, loneliness or longing for family members far away or remembering years past, some good and some disappointing.  This holiday season, don’t assume everyone loves the season, instead, ask: ...