“Oh, l’amour, l’amour, how it can let you down . . .” The Countess DeLave in the screen classic “The Women” knew the piercing pain of Cupid’s arrows. And she never had to deal with Internet chat rooms and online personals. She had it easy. So what, if Crystal stole her third husband? It was […]
Hi Hot and Heavy
What does a guy do, when he finds a man so hot and attractive that he feels like sweeping the guy off his feet? It is just he feels that he may be coming on strong all ready?
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Hot: Ah, love at first sight, so romantic.
Heavy: Didn’t […]
The huzbear and I have been together for a couple of years now, and my biggest concern is we are going to start dressing alike. Yea, we are about the same size and often share clothes. I dread the day when we show up somewhere in the same outfit. What’s a bear to do?
I AM CONFUSED.
LATELY I HAVE BEEN HEARING A LOT OF MY FRIENDS AND PEOPLE ON THE INTERNET REFER TO EDGING.
I HAVE BEEN A SEXUALLY ACTIVE SINCE AMERICAN BEAR MAGAZINE PUT OUT ITS FIRST COLOR EDITION.
I ASKED PEOPLE WHO STATED THEY PRACTICED IT. THEY EXPLAINED THAT IT WAS HOLDING OFF AN ORGASM.
I AM CONFUSED […]
I have a sweet tooth for bears. Yes, I like my men with meat on their bones, and if they have hair all over… woof, even better (and don’t get me started with a hairy back)!
Usually, when I see bears in bars or hotels, they are always in groups. Most of the times they are […]
Dear Hot & Heavy
I through the years since I came out I have met many a man. Some of them have in mind only one thing – finding a way to get their rocks off without satisfying anybody in return. I have come across some men that are this way.
I met a man, who lives […]
It’s not easy being a bear. What the hell is a versatile bottom anyway? Does this bondage wear make me look fat? How long do I have to wait to call him? Everyday practical advice from two poppa bears who have seen it, done it and still have the t-shirts to prove it. . .
please i really need you help am a lesbian and am kind of lonely i cant get myself a partner since in my country its kind of illegal so no one can come up an declare the status due to fear what do i do?
First and foremost, I feel for your situation. I can’t imagine […]
Alone, scared and confused. These words could be used to describe a lost child, but in this case, they’re not. They are the very real and daily feelings of a person who is questioning their sexuality. For those of you who’ve been there, this may take you back to a place you’d rather not visit. […]
My partner cheated; can I ever trust him or her again?
The answer is yes, you can trust again. Can you trust the person who cheated on you ever again? That depends on many factors.
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First of all, when someone cheats in a relationship, it is of utmost importance for the […]