Hot & Heavy Living in the Cave

Hot & Heavy Living in the Cave

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Gay bear (GB) meets a really nice handsome straight bear (SB) at work… and because SB is really nice (Physical and Personal), and because a bear is a bear, GB falls in love with the SB. SB welcomes the GB’s friendly gestures, however, keeps flirting with women (Ewww). GB realize that there is no way he is going to get his hands (or any other limbs) around SB, but cannot help being too friendly with SB. Now, GB is in tight spot: he does not want to scare SB away by being too close, but at the same time…he cannot hold himself back, as when he sees SB, he jumps around him like a dog wanting to play Frisbee… WHAT DO YOU THINK GB SHOULD DO? PS : GB IS…
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Living the Difference

Living the Difference

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I am gay and live the difference, bringing my experiences to Memoir of Being Gay in America. I am an author on a mission to educate the world’s population about understanding and accepting people who are gay. My book, "Living the Difference", is an important resource for young gay men living with fear, shame or self-loathing; or for anyone coming to terms with a friend or family member’s coming out. I told my story not to shock, offend or “convert” anyone, but simply to lay out a roadmap for acceptance. The book lights a candle against the darkness of ignorance. Editorial reviews of my book call "Living the Difference", “a fascinating journey no gay author has been able to capture to date,” “conquering the final frontier of bigotry and prejudice,”…
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Are You Ready To Come Out To Your Parents?

Are You Ready To Come Out To Your Parents?

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[caption id="" align="alignright" width="300" caption="Image via Wikipedia"][/caption] Coming Out To Your Parents Way too many parent child relationships suffer because of the fact that coming out to parents causes a lot of stress. This can be a very emotional decision and as a gay person you should prepare yourself for this. There is no use having this very important talk with them if you are still unsure about your own sexual orientation. Do not blurt out a half-truth, but rather explain to them that have an attraction to people of the same sex and ask them for their support and advice; This way you get your parents on your side right from the early stages of coming out. In the case where you may be settled into the gay life…
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Living the Difference

Living the Difference

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I am gay and live the difference, bringing my experiences to Memoir of Being Gay in America. I am an author on a mission to educate the world’s population about understanding and accepting people who are gay. My book, "Living the Difference", is an important resource for young gay men living with fear, shame or self-loathing; or for anyone coming to terms with a friend or family member’s coming out. I told my story not to shock, offend or “convert” anyone, but simply to lay out a roadmap for acceptance. The book lights a candle against the darkness of ignorance. Editorial reviews of my book call "Living the Difference", “a fascinating journey no gay author has been able to capture to date,” “conquering the final frontier of bigotry and prejudice,”…
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Pros and Cons of Coming Out

Pros and Cons of Coming Out

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[caption id="" align="alignright" width="300" caption="Image via Wikipedia"][/caption] Are you gay and haven't yet revealed your veiled story to your family and friends? Well, for sure you can't stay hiding forever. Then again, bringing to light the whole truth can be liberating to both you and those around you. Coming out may be soon or in the distant future, but it's bound to happen. The closet really isn't a nice play to stay in for the rest of your life. However, it's quite understandable why some gays skip revealing their true identity. After all, there are both risks and benefits of coming out gay. Everything will change forever once they come out of the closet. While it can be very liberating to you as a person, it may be devastating to…
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Gay Student Against Bullying

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The 14-year-old Ann Arbor student Graeme Taylor, who is openly gay, bravely stood up for his teacher, Jay McDowell at a recent school board meeting. McDowell was disciplined on October 20 for removing two students who had made anti-gay remarks in class. During his speech in support of his teacher, Taylor revealed his problems with bullying and a suicide attempt at the age of 9.
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Several Recommendations When Coming Out Gay

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If you feel coming out as gay is going to change your life in big ways, you are likely correct. Most people who go through this find it easier to do when they give some serious thought to developing a real strategy. This strategy should take into consideration the needs and feelings of the people who you love the most. You can't just blurt out this news at an odd moment when everyone happens to be together. It is going to ultimately turn out the best for everyone involved if you are gentler in your approach. Spend some time thinking about each individual person and how they are likely to respond to different approaches. You essentially have two options. You can get everyone you love the most together in one…
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Queer Questions

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Queer Questions Straight Talk 108 Frank & Provocative Questions it’s OK to Ask Your Lesbian, Gay or Bi Loved One How many important questions go unasked because a straight loved one doesn’t know what to ask, doesn’t want to pry or judge – or just feels embarrassed? Based on the idea that there are no stupid questions or “wrong” answers, Queer Questions Straight Talk is a permission slip to find out more about one another … a little book that says, “Go ahead and ask – it’s really OK. I trust you and I know you care.” For lesbian, gay and bi people and their straight loved ones, QQST will help them talk honestly and lovingly, to share their concerns, questions and curiosity about “the life”… what’s true, what’s just…
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Another Week on the Big Ole Gay Cruise Ship of Life

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Camp offers 'a safe haven"-http://bit.ly/ryw4i     CA AG Brown again says Prop. 8 should be struck down - http://bit.ly/Go6sA5 Gay pride activists march in Rome, Warsaw, Zagreb - http://bit.ly/L25X6    Gay Resources - The Ultimate Resource for the LGBT Community - http://gayresources.ning.com/    The Uniting American Families Act: from our friends over at Out 4 Immigration I’m sending a long email. I .. http://tinyurl.com/nvlxng    Bourne Free: [ July 10, 2009 to July 12, 2009. ] Bournemouth's Pride Festival UK Pride Dates 2009 http://tinyurl.com/m9gy2w    The Politics of DADT: Recently, we had the chance to speak with Dr. Aaron Belkin, the Director of the Palm Cente.. http://tinyurl.com/lda5yw     Isn’t Time for a New Approach?: The credibility of National LGBT organizations is seriously in jeopardy. Despi.. http://tinyurl.com/m9yelf    3D Channel Set Rainbow Stone Pendant: This beautiful pride pendant is one of a kind in…
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LGBTQ Casting Opportunity…

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Showtime Networks and Executive Producer Bryn Freedman (A&E’s “Intervention”) are developing a new TV documentary series about gays and lesbians coming out to important people in their lives. Our aim is to create a show that not only helps the people we profile and the LGBTQ community in general, but also uses television’s vast reach and power to enlighten and increase understanding of what it’s like to feel compelled to hide an essential part of oneself. We were alarmed by the recent San Francisco State University study about family response to a teen’s coming out and its conclusion that “teens who experienced negative feedback were more than eight times as likely to have attempted suicide.” The glimmer of hope the study offered however was that “parents who take even baby…
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